I have thought about it several times, about getting rid of our T.V. But then I come to my senses and think about all the times that T.V. has saved me from going crazy by putting it on for the babes.
Also, we have movie night every week.
And I like watching movies with my husband.
And, did I mention it’s saved me a time or two from going crazy?
Yet, I thought about it. I thought, “What if…”
Could it be better for our kids if we didn’t have it?
Could it be better for my husband and I if we didn’t have it?
Could I end up in a mental institution without a T.V. break for the kids?
All valid questions.
Then my husband, about a month ago, says, “Why don’t we just get rid of our T.V.?”
And I was all, “Um, no…I need it, just in case, you know? Plus I like watching movies with you and having family movie night.”
I didn’t want to get rid of the T.V., but I was willing to try a week without T.V., except for movie night.
And we did it, we went a week without T.V. and it was…easy. The kids only asked to watch it once or twice, and when I said it was no T.V. week they found something else to do. They got creative. They used their imaginations. They were fine. And I was fine.
But then we went back to watching it, because it was easy, and so accessible.
Fast forward to today.
We were driving to the library and I put in a tape about Beethoven: stories of his life and bits of his music throughout. We all enjoyed listening to it. What struck me was this: I wonder if Beethoven had T.V. if he would have realized his gift at such a young age…or even at all. I wonder if we would have his brilliant compositions if he had a T.V.? And then I thought, “I wonder how many children in my kids generation will never fulfill or discover their potential if they are too “busy” watching T.V.? How many gifts are we missing out on because kids aren’t “bored” enough to tinker and explore and think and create?”
I shared my thoughts with my husband and he said, “Let’s just get rid of it.”
And so we are.
I’m not going to lie, I’m a little panicked. It’s a crutch for me when I’m tired and I want the kids to be occupied.
But what I want more, is for my kids to use their imaginations and maybe, just maybe, discover some unexplored talent. Maybe I want them to be bored. Maybe I want to get uncomfortable so I can invest more into them, and maybe have a game night instead of a movie night.
Taking a deep breath and remembering that people lived without T.V. for hundreds of years,
Have any of you taken the plunge and gotten rid of your T.V.?
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