Moms, KEEP GOING (For when you need fresh vision)

by SarahMae | January 21, 2017 8:57 pm

 

I was at the salon having my twice a year therapy session.

You do know hair stylists are counselors, right? Of course you do. Anyway.

I was having my stylist counselor HANDLE THE GRAY SITUATION when we started talking about motherhood. I was telling her that I was just tired. I have parented now for 11 years and am half-way done. In 11 more years my children will be grown. WHOA. And there’s this idea that my kids are old enough to raise themselves, that I can kind of coast. And it’s true, and it’s tempting, because THEY ARE ACTUALLY OLD ENOUGH TO RAISE THEMSELVES. I mean, not really, but they can make food and not toddle down stairs. I don’t have to do that much to ensure their survival. But I’m not just wanting them to survive; I want to keep on in nurturing their souls and finishing this parenting race well. And by “well” I mean doing the best I can…giving myself to the work faithfully. I don’t want to regret my long, short parenting years.

But ya’ll, I’m a bit weary…a bit…in need of fresh vision.

When I was a new mom I had TONS of vision. I read all the parenting books. I froze fresh cut vegetables and fruit and put them in ice cream trays. I actually bought a SQUASH, cut it up, blended it up, and froze that too. I sewed Christmas and Easter dresses for my baby girl. I went to all the library functions for moms with little ones, and I did crafts and I sang Scripture and I read books and I did ALL THE THINGS to be the best mother I could. As it is with all moms, I was wildly imperfect, but I was determined and on mission to raise my kids well and invest as best I could into them. As I’m sure you have.

That mission is still in my bones, and yet, I need encouragement to keep going.

I had a conversation recently with my Father-in-Law about how I was feeling (we were doing the dishes and, like the salon, therapy is bound to take place in the kitchen). He reminded me of two things: 1.) I am in a reprieve period with my kids, so I should enjoy it and take the time to rest up. He wasn’t saying to coast or ease up on parenting, but rather to see the season for what it is, a time where my kids will still cuddle and ask my opinion and listen to me read books and Scripture to them and help themselves to some cereal and there is innocence and sweetness all around. I get this. I want to rest in and delight in it. Especially because I’m tired. This is my slow walk (I’m still moving though) before the sprint. 2.) He reminded me that attacks will come down the pike. We’ll have to deal with things in the coming years that we haven’t yet had to contend with. As our children move towards independence and figuring out their worlds and all that the culture wants to throw at them, we’ll be in a new battle. Know it and prepare your heart and your mind for it.

I’m listening. Rest up and enjoy the season; prepare for the rest of the race.

So how do we prepare for the rest of the race, the second leg so to speak?

How do we keep our endurance up and stay focused on the mission?

How do we keep on?

Well, here is one thing I know for sure right now: I can mother. 

(That sounds kind of awesome, doesn’t it? It is.)

I can mother (and you can mother) and I will mother and I will pace myself[1] and I will KEEP GOING. That’s the biggest thing, to just KEEP GOING. I won’t give up. I won’t lose heart.  

Our mothering, our choosing to nurture and bring up our children, it matters. God has prepared us for this since before the beginning of time; He has planned this good work of mothering for us to do. 

Me, you, we are doing Kingdom work, right now, that was planned for us to do before we even had breath in our lungs. WE ARE ON MISSION. And that is pretty motivating. THAT is some vision to keep going.

So in His strength and power, we can, we will keep on. Be thou our vision. 

Love and grace and all the cake (with some spinach thrown in later so we don’t regret the cake decision),

Sarah Mae

My help comes from the LORD, the Maker of heaven and earth.  Psalm 121:2

This is an old photo, but it seemed fitting. 🙂 Also, LOOK AT MY CARE! So little. So precious. Like my friend Amy says, “Babies don’t keep.”

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Endnotes:
  1. pace myself: http://sarahmae.com/2016/07/what-i-want-to-tell-moms-what-i-wish-i-would-have-known-sooner/

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